New Year is near, and with it come decisions that would change your life for the better. However, every year we make similar decisions, we want to lose weight, earn more money, save for a new car or house, and somehow lose the understanding that all change comes from us.
If you could not solve something years ago, it is very likely that the problem is with you, and not with other people or some external circumstances.
These five changes should help you adjust your life.
Stop looking for excuses
You have heard it said who wants to find a way, who will not find an excuse. Although this sentence annoys us because we do not have the time and resources when everything is added and subtracted, it is not all so black and white. Only that if you want to fix the house, there is always a way, it's up to you.
No matter how hard you try, it takes an hour or two a day to do it. Paint wall to wall in a bit until you are done. You will feel better when everything around you is in perfect order, even if it means you have to sacrifice a little of your time for rest.
Throw away everything you do not need
Be it clothes or other things you carry around the house and they only serve to wipe the dust from them. It's just better not to have it, than to be upset that it takes up space in your home. You will feel freer and have more space for yourself.
Avoid holding anger
Once you have cleaned your living space, it is time to address yourself. Does anyone make you angry? Does it provoke negative emotions? Do not push. Be honest with yourself and others and everything will be as it should be. Simply, it is better to immediately tell friends and partner if something is bothering you, than to pretend that everything is fine and then burst immediately. It is a much bigger mess if a million problems arise right away than if you solve them one by one.
Get away from guilt
Everyone makes mistakes sometimes. It is an indisputable fact and it is also an indisputable fact that we sometimes feel bad about it. However, if we live in the past, feeling guilty about something that happened a long time ago will make us sad and destroy us little by little. If everyone has forgiven your mistake, forgive yourself. Do not be your greatest enemy, but your greatest support, only then will you be truly happy.
Do not compare yourself with others
Do not compare yourself with others. It is completely inefficient. Focus on yourself and your happiness. Find what fulfills you and what makes you special, only then will you be satisfied with your life.